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There are rules to every game, and learning about kink starts with identifying some basic BDSM definitions -- and reading this week's cover story, " Kink of the Jungle ," of course. Below is an abbreviated selection of terms that may be unknown to non-kinksters, or as they are known, vanillas.
Read them with caution, because if a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, then a little more might inspire a permanent vacation to the dark side. Author's note: Lube is your friend. Author's note : Not to be confused with a blanket party -- that is the bad kind of bad.
Cell popping : A form of body modification, also referred to as micro-branding, which involves using a red-hot needle or poker to make a series of dots on the skin. Author's note : Of course it hurts, but so does love. Dragon's tail : A type of whip with a broad, triangular piece of suede or leather that tapers down to a point. Author's note : So much ouch. Emotional play : A type of psychological BDSM play involving humiliation, fear, shame or other elements that cause the recipient to have an emotional response. Author's note : It's like watching Fox News, only more fun.
Figging : Inserting a piece of ginger or a hot chili pepper into the anus to produce a burning sensation. Author's note : Make sure you can remove it. That trip to the E. Golden shower : The act of urinating on someone. Author's note : It's the bio-filtered drink of champions. Author's note : "No" really means "no" here. Informed consent : The principle of consent being given with full knowledge of events, circumstances and participants -- and the ability to give consent, i.
Author's note : This is why screwing dogs is a bad idea -- also because screwing a dog is gross. Jerkoff : The vanilla idiot who shows up uninvited at a kink play party and tries to screw everything that moves until he is either asked to vacate or is removed from the premises. Author's note : Seriously, nobody likes this guy. Author's note : Jeweled daggers work well here. Lactation : A fetish for human female breast milk, sometimes involving the actual expression of milk. Author's note : Mothers need love, too.
Mindfuck : The act of manipulating someone's perception of reality. Author's note : The Tea Party does this every day. Negotiation : The act of discussing rules and expectations within a scene, or in a BDSM relationship. Author's note : Scenes can go sour without communication, so talk. Objectification : The act of dehumanizing a person for pleasure. Author's note : Human footstools could be the new cool furniture.
Pansexual : A person who engages in erotic or sexual play with persons of any gender or sexual orientation. Author's note: Yep -- it's time you all learned that it goes beyond bisexual these days. Queening : Also known as "face-sitting," this act involves a person who consensually "forces" another person into mouth-to-genital or mouth-to-anal contact.
Author's note : Going ass-to-mouth is optional. Roman showers : The act of vomiting on another person. Author's note: Don't judge. Maybe it's hot to get someone's tummy goo on your face. Soft limit : A boundary that is more flexible, one which can be "pushed" to a comfortable degree. Author's note : "You wanna wedge what up my ass, exactly?
Okay, fine. Use caution, because they won't. Unicorn : A single, bisexual female, often a submissive, who enjoys playing with couples. They are called this because they are hard to find, and even harder to capture, like a mythical creature. Author's note : Good luck finding one of these. Vampire gloves : These are leather gloves with small metal spikes embedded in the palm areas, used to produce a stinging effect on skin.
Author's note : These are perfect for beginners to experiment with. White Knight : A sometimes derisive nickname for dominant men who "rescue" female submissives from other unsuitable dominants, situations, or from themselves. Author's note : These guys are called Captain-Save-a-Ho in the vanilla world. X : Also known as ecstasy, this is a street drug that you should not use during scene play, because getting wasted and sceneing is not a good idea for reasons of safety and consent. Your mother : The woman who gave birth to you may be into kink. Ask her sometime over tea. Author's note : She told me all about her kinks yesterday while I was spanking her goodnight.
Zipper : A series of clothespins along a length of string or yarn, then placed on parts of the body and removed either one by one or all at once to produce various sensations. Author's note : And you thought all they could do was hold underpants onto a clothesline.
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