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Age play and Daddy play are often misunderstood to those outside of the kinky community. Get ready to go Beyond 50 Shades. Just what is a Daddy Dom? Well, to start with, a Daddy Dom is first and foremost a Dom. A Daddy Dom does not promote incest or pedophilia as the kink may be misunderstood by ignorant people. And while some doms and some subs may have been victims of family violence, incest, or other abuse, Daddy Doms and their girls are not overrepresented in these any more than the general population. The following are some of the fundamental characteristics, and indeed needs, that all Daddy dominants seem to share universally:.
Her One Fan , the Daddy usually believes in his girl more than she herself does, and often uses the wisdom of his age to see her not only for who she is, but also for who she can become. He is proud of her and praises her for not just for what she accomplishes, but for what she attempts, and for who she is.
He accepts her for who she is, flaws and all. And he knows all her flaws because he is also her ultimate Confidant , allowing her to bare her soul to him beyond all others. She may have many different relationships and types of friends in her life. He is the one from whom she withholds nothing.
He is the Protector of his girl against real or perceived threats, dangers, and bad people. Her Teacher and mentor shows her new things that come from a longer and possibly wider set of life experiences. Daddy likes to take his girl to places she has never been, feed her foods she has never eaten, and do activities she has never enjoyed before. He is never so happy as when he can look in her eyes and know he has given her something she has never had before.
He symbolically deflowers her on a regular basis, whether that be sexual or just in exposure to new life adventures. He wants to be her Guide and advisor. As the girl makes her way in the world, Daddy wants to be there to answer her questions, calm her fears, make her insecurities go away, and give her sound advice based on his years of experience. The Daddy dom is an unyielding, unmovable anchor in the storm.
Daddies know the storm will pass, and she will be safe, but she needs something to hold onto that will not move. When the girl acts badly, she expects to be disciplined or punished for the infraction. Most Daddy dominants find it occasionally difficult to keep this up, especially as the affection for their girl grows. They would love nothing more than to spoil their girls, but they realize this is the path to ruin. One a girl begins to believe she can manipulate Daddy, she no longer sees him as her dominant, unyielding anchor.
A girl needs the stability and protection of a man who is more dominant than she is. To demonstrate that characteristic, Daddies must sometimes be excessively strict and rigid, more so than they would in normal relationships. The act of disciplining the girl may be used as part of a sadomasochistic activity. In addition to these practically mandatory characteristics, some couples add their own sadism and masochism to the mix, and may use the concept of the wolf or lion and little lamb to describe the way in which the Daddy simultaneously protects his little girl from the world, and yet wants to dominate and devour her sexually.
As a sadist, he may create the very tears that he will later kiss away. Sounds sweet, and yet terrifying, if you are not accustomed to the world of sadomasochism in which these participants operate. But to a Daddy and his girl who are into BDSM, this is the most perfect of scenarios they can imagine to act out their fetish.
Daddies come in many flavors, just as their girls do. A Daddy and his girl might not have a sexual relationship at all. A Daddy may have more than one girl, may be married and have a girl, too, or may have other types of combinations. But it is rare for a girl to have more than one Daddy. He may eventually run out of things to teach his little girl. She may ultimately not need his sage advice and his experience any more.
The need that Daddy has for his girl is every bit as potent as the need she has for her Daddy. A Daddy usually knows he is one. He may only need to have his innate Daddy characteristics pointed out to him. Similarly, the little girl usually knows she needs a Daddy without having to be taught how to be his little girl. Girls in this lifestyle do not act like little girls in their normal work lives.
They do not bring teddy bears to work. Indeed many are older women who are very assertive and successful in the business world, but need this special place to get nurturing and comfort lacking in their careers. A Daddy might not necessarily act parental or fatherly in his normal work life either.
In any case, it evokes deep-seated needs and emotions for both parties, and is a very powerful dynamic. Teacher, guide, and anchor are not necessarily roles that a Master is required to adopt. It does not address the possibility that parent-child ego states Transactional Analysis are the preferred communication mode.
But this description of Daddy Dom characteristics will hopefully be useful as a baseline explanation of what makes a Daddy tick. How could this kind of relationship be misunderstood? Not really. Not traditional gender roles anyway, at least not in my experience.
On a cognitive level there may even be some value to it Especially when there is no sex involved, which is often the case. Generally, a daddy dom caters to the need for security, guidance, and a more attached sense of stability the submissive has often been or percieves themselves to have been deprived of. Nothing says fantasy has to be confined to sexuality or gender norms. Nope — but I will check it out. Its all new to me. Thanks sunny! You will find him when you least expect it but a true daddy would never ever want sex first times to go to dinner or talk unless the chemistry is just unreal true.
Try local. I agree with Steven. Very well said. I met my Daddy while looking for a job. I got much h more than a job. The same thing happens to me and I often feel embarrassed. Glad someone thinks its cute, lol. Wow i have that too. Known my daddy for three years now and every time I see him, I feel nervous and shy. Never had that before. Hes much more intelligent than me, what if I cant live up to that?
He did say he will teach me and I am eager to learn. How disrespected would you feel to see her pleasuring herself to somebody else but you, or if she were in one of those videos? Maybe she needs a Daddy, talk to her about it. She may also enjoy porn, do we know anything? Who are you to judge? Sex is amazing and we have a fantastic sex life with each other but part of having a healthy sex life is having your own sexual identity.
Well said Ben! We realize we can think other people, kinky stuff is hot but loving and having a relationship is something we only reserve for each other and do not want to break those bonds by bringing anyone else into our relationship at this time. A desire to please one another, not try to manipulate and control, have open and honest,communication is a solid foundation for a relationship to flourish and keep growing:.
Very well written. My Daddy Dom has all of these characteristics. He actually asked me to read this. I mean Daddy is my everything. He is not only my Daddy Dom but he is also my partner. Our bond is strong and unlike any other relationship I have ever been in. I just started talking to a daddy dom.
I had a baby doll I always told her she would be gone one day and she would sob as she wanted to marry me. No baby the age 1. But 2 you have a beautiful life to live and have a family. Daddy is here to set you on that path. Do I love you?
A Daddy does know his girl. Please listen to him.. I feel the same way. Always will be. Great find and read. Currently in an amazing Daddy babygirl relationship. She fits the mold to a T. The emotions of all aspects are powerful. She feels in touch with me as I do require a willinh little girl to grow with. Full disclosure, but need some help understanding. If a husband, yes me, fullfils 4 out of the 7 Daddy descriptors. Would it be uncommon for a wife to sneak around to either a find a new daddy to fill the other 3; or b find a daddy to fill all 7? This is all new to me.
And, she filmed her escapades. That is how I found out that she was living this other life. Thank you in advance for some guidance. My husband is my daddy Dom. He is the leader in our household. Our marriage improved greatly once I left the corporate world and became a housewife. Do you not enjoy spankings? I ask because spankings are usually a reward.A daddy dom
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